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would YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF MARRIED EVEN IF YOU DON'T HAVE A LICENSE?

 So, I was scrolling down my timeline on instagram, when I came across an interview with Kandi (RHOA). In the interview she is being asked if she thinks that Kenya Moore's marriage is real even though no one can find a marriage certificate. Kandi made the point that it doesn't matter because it's their marriage not hers. So then I start to wonder is this apart of the new societal construct that marriage isn't necessary? I personally feel like marriage is necessary for those who want to make a life and family. If you are a person who just wants to date and be single or if you are a serial monogamous, I totally understand NOT getting married. The person who wants to have a family but does not feel the need to legally bind themselves to another person, confuses me. I am an all in type of girl, plus I'm a tad bit old school. I believe in the sanctity of marriage and the benefits it can have for the couple as well as the children they decide to bring into the world. I am not saying that marriages don't end but if you are going to call yourself a wife, or a husband, I believe you should give that title and that position all that you can give. A person who doesn't fully commit to the marriage is probably holding back for one reason or another. Therefore, that person is not giving all that they can give.

sooo....i went up a size in panties.

I have been the same size 6 in panties for as long as I can remember. My weight has gone up and down just like most women, so I keep (period panties). But, this week when I went to Walmart to buy some everyday panties, I prefer Hanes and Fruit of the Loom. I decided it was time to get real with myself. "YOU WEAR A SIZE 7!" As a woman I know all to well what it's like to have underwear in my ass all day. I know what it's like to wear underwear so tight that my coonchie took deep breaths when I undressed at night. I KNOW what it's like to have the elastic part of the underwear embedded in places no one should ever have anything embedded. That time is OVER. But at the same time does that mean I am getting too big, or does that mean my ass is getting bigger? I hope it just means my ass is getting bigger. Even though I am uncomfortable with the thought of gaining more weight I am even more uncomfortable with panties that are too tight. So ladies ask yourself and your coonchie are your panties too tight?